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The project
Boys & Girls grew from conversations of the differences between men
and women, concerning relationships. While not all men and women
are so vastly different, there is a generalization of both sexes'
expectations and issues of trust and fidelity. This led to the
examination of how men and women are raised differently, by both family
and society, to expect and desire relationships that are created from
fantasy. In general, young men grow up looking to pornographic
magazines and over sexualized imagery and young women grow up viewing
fairy tales and fashion magazines as the defining elements of what to
expect from a relationship with the opposite sex. Young women are
encouraged to be pure and virginal and with any luck, one day Mr. Right
will appear, while young men are encouraged to believe in conquest and
conquer and in order to be a "real" man, one must sleep with as many
women as possible. When the contrasting expectations of the
dominant, yet submissive, sex kitten and the ever adoring and always
faithful prince charming collide, disappointment and disillusionment
often arise. Neither ideals are plausible or based on reality,
both are, for the most part, created in and remain in, a world of
fantasy. (Six images from series of thiry)
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